Mars.

"When you give me k-kisses...that's money honey..."
The voice of Lady GaGa faded in and echo-ed in the air. This is undeniably a great alarm to wake me up every morning, first thing i'd do would be turn it off and lie back down for another minute or two. Then, Dragging myself to the bathroom, out of the bathroom, into the kitchen, out of the kitchen, to the dining room, had my dinner, changed to formal wear, apply some facial care, use some perfume and off i go to work.

the thing is my work starts @ 9 and i often reach office @ 8.10am. you must be wondering why would i not leave the house @ 8.40am. Cant Do That! this is due to that i must follow sis out or else i have to think of a way to get to the office. that wont be nice, isnt it.

if you have 50 minutes to spare, what would you do? previously, i'd start my work asap. then i realize, why stress myself so much? 1 should start slow in the early morning. Yeah Yeah Yeahs and Strokes albums are great morning albums, they give me the mood to kick start my work. What's best is playing pinball while listening to the albums. The drums are just like the sound effects meant for that metallic ball. just great!

and yeaahh.. things are little different today. I never took out my X-FI player, i never played pinball. i read, instead.
embarked on a journey to Mars and Venus. Surely, you know what book i am reading right now aite.

and i'm so grateful that i was reading it alone in the office today. I laughed out so loud that people will think that im crazy. Wait, i'm crazy afterall. The first chapter is interesting already! Honest, Straight and Direct. The first it discussed about is Men and Women conversation needs.

you see, the book uses examples. The examples really resemble real life situations. and i do think the examples are real too.
First lesson. what women want in a conversation is not solutions, but a pair of ears. Just some caring words, gestures and a pair of ears are sufficient. A hug is inevitable too. but, what most men would do is make suggestions and solutions to solve a particular problem. Men are born as repairman. They tend to repair things, to be successful, to be a pro. But, women dont really need that, and now i gotta agree with this, hands up, legs up. Whatever you (guys) do, just support her, hold her up! or .. hug her tightly would do i guess, they just want you to listen, that's it.

and what men want is not solution, but you, women, to keep quiet. Women that give suggestions and solutions thought that they can help their beloved to further improve, to be a better man. However, their actions would hurt their men more. It damages the self-esteem and confidence of a man. Men would think that they are useless and unable to bring happiness you all want. trust me, we do really feel this way. So, the next time, when your bf/husband got lost on their way to a certain place, just keep quiet. when they are about to screw up, let them be. trust them girls!

so what you waiting there, if you have a girlfriend, go hug her tightly now!
you gotta pity me, i only have a bolster.